Dating Latin American Women

August 21, 2009

Dating Belizean Women

Many of the issues facing Belizean women today are the same as those facing the rest of the women in Latin America.  Dating Latin American Women has its challenges because most of Latin America women live under a patriarchal system where the man rules.  Whether it’s government, jobs, businesses or families, the man is usually at the head, and it is no different for Belizean women.  Belize was under British rule since 1638 or thereabout until becoming independent in 1981, but women’s liberation did not come with autonomy from the British empire.

Belize has a small population, a little over 300 thousand people and the ethnic makeup is mainly Mestizo and Creole.  If you like dark, exotic women who speak English (it is the official language), then Belize is the country where you should look for your Latin American woman.

As far as dating a woman from Belize is concerned, keep in mind that it is a very small country and relatively isolated.  I have a friend who lived there for about eight years, who told me that conversations are mostly about politics and local gossip.  My friend also noted that there is a small-town mentality there, with very little interest of what’s going on outside of Belize.

And please keep in mind that we are generalizing.  There are women in Belize who do not accept the patriarchal paradigm and are working so that the Belizean society will change.  We know this at Dating Latin American Women.com and we support it.  Nevertheless, the truth is that Belize is still very much a patriarchal stronghold.

August 20, 2009

Dating Guatemalan Women

It is very unfortunate that Guatemalan women struggle for their rights within a context of insecurity and violence.  It isn’t something new.  It’s something that they have face throughout the country’s history; and the struggle continues.  There has been internal armed conflict in past decades, and women, most of the indigenous, were victims of sexual, physical and psychological violence during all those years.

Statistics show that between 2001 and May 2009, there have been more than 1,500 women murdered and only in 14 of those cases were the perpetrators brought justice.  This impunity only serves to reinforce the patriarchal hierarchy in the Guatemalan family.  It sends a message that it is okay to harm women.

Guatemalan women face violence on the street, in the workplace and at home.  Guatemalan women, in spite of the constant threat of violence, continue to struggle to have their voices heard.  Therefore, should you decide to date a Guatemalan woman, it may very well be that they have never dealt with a man who has not been violent to them in some form.  It may very well be that you will have the most thankful person in the world by your side, or it may turn out that she simply doesn’t know how to react to a man who is courteous, kind and doesn’t feel that it is okay to be violent and harm her.

When we interviewed a Guatemalan woman on this issue, she told us that it is best to be patient and show the woman that she can trust you not to harm her.

At Dating Latin American Women.com, abhor violence against women and say that it has not place in today’s modern society.

August 19, 2009

Dating Mexican Women

First of all, at Dating Latin American Women, we want to avoid stereotypes.  We try to speak generally without trying to pigeonhole the women of the region and make them seem something that they are not.

However, among the more non-stereotypical things, women from the countryside tend to be more conservative than their city counterparts.  This runs true throughout Latin America.  Several of our staff members are from Mexico, and they have lived both in the countryside and in the city.

In Mexico, generally speaking, women are not expected to take the initiative in selecting a mate for any occasion.  Be it going out to dinner, a movie or whatever, it is usually the man who is expected to approach the woman.  Even at a dance, it is the man who is expected to ask the woman is she would like to dance.  Women are not expected (and they generally do not) make the first move.

Most countries in Latin American are still years behind in the women’s liberation movement, so a man isn’t seen as a moron if he opens a door for or offers a bus or subway seat to a woman.  In fact, they gain points if they do so.

Mexican women, are publicly conservative and will often reject sexual approaches during the first weeks or months of dating.  They will no openly accept a sexual relationship without some form of serious commitment on the man’s part.  A lot of it is superficial, but that’s the way it is nonetheless.  If you pressure a woman too much in the beginning, you are liable to be quickly dumped, especially if the woman is not from a big city, young or inexperienced.

Depending on how the woman has been raised, how much she has been taught by her family to be subservient to the man, she might even be offended if she is asked to pay for half the bill on a date, if the man dresses too casual for a date or if he doesn’t do things that the woman considers romantic such as giving her flowers or sending a love letter or email.

Should you decide to date a Mexican woman, the best thing to do would be to talk to her and ask her what her expectations are, and for you to tell her what your expectations are.  It doesn’t matter if you are dating Latin American women or women from another galaxy.  The key in any dating is the level of communication you develop.  You cannot both be mind readers and try to figure out what to do by guessing what the other person is thinking.

August 18, 2009

Get to Know the Countries of Latin America

* Mexico – Although it is a country in North America, it is nonetheless considered part of Latin America

The Countries in Central American are:

* Belize – Belize is considered part of Latin America because of its geographical location, not because it has Latin roots.  In fact, it used to be called British Honduras.
* Costa Rica
* El Salvador
* Guatemala
* Honduras
* Nicaragua
* Panama – Panama is not really considered part of Central America by the rest of the Central American countries and it is not considered a South American country by the rest of the South American countries.

The Countries of South America are:

* Argentina
* Bolivia
* Brazil
* Chile
* Colombia
* Ecuador
* French Guiana – French Guiana is a French overseas department and not a South American country
* Guyana – Formerly a part of the British empire, but it is part of the South American Continent.
* Paraguay
* Peru
* Suriname – Formerly a Dutch possession, it is also in the South American Continent
* Uruguay
* Venezuela

There are some islands in the Caribbean that because of the Spanish heritage and language are included in Latin America:

*Puerto Rico is an unincorporated territory of the United States and not a country, but it is considered Latin American.

*Cuba

*Dominican Republic

There are many more islands in the Caribbean of course, but they are not traditionally considered part of Latin American culture or heritage.  They share closer roots and ties with France, Holland and England.

If you are going to be dating Latin American women, you need to know that they are as diverse as their geographic locations.  Latin American women come in all races, religions, colors, etc.  What has traditionally been considered Latin American are those countries which had ties to either Spain or Portugal.

At Dating Latin American Women.com, we believe that you will have a wonderful time getting to know and dating the women of Latin America and perhaps form a lasting relationship with one of them.

August 17, 2009

Dating Latin American Women is not Much Different than Dating Any Other Woman

It is true that there are cultural differences and many other differences that make the experience of dating Latin American women unique, but it is not so different.  Women in Latin America love to go out to dinner and a movie, just like any other women anywhere else in the world.  You may eat food which seems rather spicy or exotic to you.  The name of the food may sound different coming from your mouth if you are not a native speaker, but the experience is still getting to know the person.

One difference we have found is that Latin American women love to go dancing.  If you are not into dancing, then you should make sure the Latin American women that you contact for dating are not into dancing.  Better yet, take some dance lessons and learn to dance Reggaeton, Salsa, Merengue, Cumbia and other Latin American rhythms.  You will have a greater variety of women to choose from, you will have much more fun on your dates while you are getting to know the woman or women and you will shed a few pounds in the process.

August 16, 2009

What Should You Look For When Dating Latin American Women?

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If you do a search for dating latin american women on Google, you will see that there are over 700k results.  If you do a search under dating women, there are at least 367 million results.  That’s a lot of websites to go through, a lot of information and a lot of women.

Where do you start?  It is not easy to get started.  You don’t know how your information will be used.  You don’t know whether the profiles on the website are real or stolen from the Internet.  You don’t know if the women are hired to keep you on the website, write to you and keep you on the website spending your money as long as possible.

The latter happens a lot in the adult sex dating industry.  People, not just women, are hired all over the world to keep you on the website as long as possible.  This is a dirty little secret that some of the most popular websites in the adult dating industry don’t want you to know.  You might end up spending $30 per month or month for three months while you get to know a woman and all the while, you are really talking to a man who is pretending to be a woman.  There was never any real intent for you to meet someone.  The only intent was to keep you coming back so that you would spend more of your hard-earned money.

Has this happened to you?  Have you been deceived or scammed by unscrupulous websites that don’t really care whether you meet someone.  The idea of a dating website should be for you to meet someone, get to know the person and eventually meet the person.  In order for that to happen, the person has to be real.  There really has to be someone behind the profile that is posted, not just a room full of people answering emails and pretending that they are falling in love with you so that they can keep you on the website.

Dating Latin American Women.com was born out of the idea that there has to be a place for men to meet real women who are serious about getting married.  The website is in its infancy stages.  There are still sample profiles on the website because we are making sure that everything works on the website before we charge a single dime.  In fact, if you post a profile now, you will be given free membership.  The website is in its “pre-launch” stages.

However, what we have done is that we have partnered with marriage agencies all over Latin America:  From Mexico, all the way South to the Patagonia and Tierra del Fuego areas of Argentina and Chile, there are marriage agencies who are interviewing single, divorced and widowed women from 18 – 35 who desire to meet a foreign gentleman for a serious relationship which might lead to marriage.

We have asked the agencies to provide a profile of the lady, with pictures and some sort of proof that the woman is real, i.e. we have asked the agencies to provide us with some form of picture id, an email address and a telephone number.  Once you have gone through the preliminary stages of getting to know each other, establishing a relationship and deciding that you want to meet, the staff at Dating Latin American Women.com wants you to actually meet.  We don’t want you to stay on our website forever.

It is our firm belief that by posting profiles of women who are th0roughly interviewed, women who actually want to meet men for a long-term relationship that could lead to marriage, our website will grow.  There is no advertising like word of mouth.  Information spreads quickly on the Internet nowadays.  We aim to be a scrupulous website that will actually help you meet Women from Latin America.

Look for an official launch from our website in the coming weeks.  Once we have gone through the interview process with all of the women who are to be posted on the website, we will officially launch the website and begin charging for the services.  Why not get a head start and register for free and get a free membership?

We will also be posting lots of what we hope will be useful information, including interviews with women from the different countries in Latin America.  We want them to tell the men what they are looking for and why.  In any event, good luck on your search.  Even if you should decide not to use our services, we hope that the information we will be providing in this blog will help you find the right person.

August 14, 2009

Dating Latin American Women

Most men feel that Dating Latin American Women means dating a woman who is looking for a visa and a way out of poverty.  That’s a misconception.  There are plenty of professional women throughout Latin America who are looking for a man from the US, Canada or Europe because of the chauvinism they encounter from Latin American men on a daily basis.

To understand what a Latin American Woman wants when she goes on a dating site to look for a foreign gentleman, you have to understand the culture and dynamics.  Of course, we are generalizing.  There are many things that are region specific.  Our hope in the coming blogs is to give you an overall view of Latin American countries, their culture, beliefs, women and the things you can expect from the different regions.

If you are going to join a dating site that features Latin American Women, you will have much more success if you know at least a bit about the country that the woman is from.  You can even find out a little about the region that the lady is from because there may be regional differences.

All in all, your dating experience should be very pleasant if it is done correctly.  You should be able to find a woman who is compatible and start a relationship that will be lasting if that is what you are looking for.

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